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Cake day: August 12th, 2026

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  • Lemvi@piefed.ziptoFeminism@lemmy.world•Lemmy has a sexism problem
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    5 days ago

    I’m not sure that’s the point of the comment though. Maybe it is, idk.

    I guess we fundamentally agree and just interpret the comment differently. Hitting others is generally not ok, except in self defense.

    I interpret the comment as “The boy should learn some self defense. That will help him get over the abuse and recover some self esteem.”, which I find valid.

    You interpret it as “The boy should start hitting girls. This domination will lift his self esteem”. I agree that’s a shit take, but again, I also don’t interpret the comment that way, and I don’t think that those who upvoted it do.

    I guess only OP can clarify what they meant.


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    Don’t know the context here, but to me it looks like that comment simply suggests teaching self defense to a victim of physical violence. Knowing some self defense is generally a good idea, especially if someone has a higher risk / history of being physically attacked. And if your attacker is a woman of course you still need to defend yourself.

    That’s not the same as teaching boys to hit girls, and I don’t think that’s the point the comment was trying to make.

    Another point I think I have to make: hitting back is not the same as self defense, it is retaliation, and not something we should teach children.




  • I think there are two separate questions here.

    1. Which experiences should not be missed? Those that help you grow. In no particular order: heartbreak, loss, defeat, love, friendship, challenge…
    2. How to enjoy your 20s? Well I guess that somewhat depends on your funds, your preferences and your location.

    What I’d recommend: Don’t stick to what you know, you have the rest of your life for that. Try new experiences, keep an open mind, meet new people, visit different places, learn things. And chase your dreams before life has got you on your knees.





  • Yes, if you want the scent to stick longer, you need a higher concentration, not more perfume.

    I like EdP, you apply it in the morning and by the evening only the base notes are left, you can then re-apply if you are going out.

    Generelly, the scent of a perfume always develops while you wear it. The top notes that can be smelled immediately after applying are gone after half an hour, then you can smell the middle notes and finally the base notes.

    Concentration changes how long middle notes and base notes linger, the top notes always disappear fast.