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  • I’ve noticed the same thing over the years. There’s some people that won’t accept anyone having any sort of negative emotion.

    You’re mad, but all you’re doing is grumbling, sulking, and keeping to yourself? Some people act like that’s just as bad as getting into fights.

    Negative emotions are human. We’re not unfeeling robots, and life will have highs and lows.

    Sometimes people are stressed because of a particular project at work, or because they’re having car/house troubles. A therapist isn’t really the answer to that. They’re better suited for longer-term problems, such as issues with getting along with parents, mental trauma, or having a diagnosed condition.

    But unfortunately, when it comes to mental health of others most people don’t really care. They say whatever is expedient for that makes them vaguely feel like they’re helping. Because so often, that help is more about them, not you.




  • I’d like a federated ecosystem for game mods that uses torrents for file downloads to reduce server load. Something to act as a safe haven in case NexusMods enshittifies. It’d also allow more diverse sets of rules through servers, so you could have versions of Nexus, LoversLab, etc. all sharing a framework instead of everything running smoothly for one and not the others.

    Plus, NexusMods have really dropped the ball with regards to permissions. Their default permissions are set up so that if you’re a mod author, other authors need to ask you for permission to use your mod as a dependency. Not just crediting you and linking to your mod, but asking permission beforehand. I don’t see how anyone can look an that and not see it as insanely hypocritical