• Remember_the_tooth@lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    No problem!

    That’s very accurate. I don’t mind handling tarantulas or furry jumping spiders, but shiny spiders of any kind creep me out. Bonus point for terror if there’s webbing involved. Hobo spiders are probably the worst. They’re so fast and aggressive. I still catch them and take them outside, but it still feels awful. The only exception to the mercy rule is the shower. Shower spiders go down the drain immediately.

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      1 day ago

      Poor clean spiders.

      But I get what you are saying, it makes some intuitive sense.
      In my case I think I’ve (as a kid) narrowed down the technical memetic part mostly to the very centre-point where the 8 lines end, so basically my brain recognising the legs (starting from the end of the legs) & then seeing how they “end” up in one narrow place (so, relatively to spider leg size, if the sternum looking from the bottom or the end part of prosoma from the top is “too tightly together” or even too perfectly round/octagonal shaped).
      (And spiders differ very much in that regard, even the same one in relation to how well fed it is :D.)

      Why? Idk, but doesn’t feel learned.
      (It’s still there, but not the default/I have to think about it more actively.)

      That I remember (again, as a kid) I was only triggered (differently than described above) by one “too smooth” species, the poor, harmless, misjudged beneficial, cute (well, as all spiders) wasp spiders.
      I didn’t harm them but it’s a sad memory for me bcs the smol town (or the whole valley?) I grew up in basically doesn’t have them anymore. Bcs we hate flowers/biodiversity, but love grass & pesticides I guess. I should be glad they were even still around for me to experience them.

      (No pics bcs you mentioned you only like unshaven butts & legs.)

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        12 hours ago

        I didn’t harm them but it’s a sad memory for me bcs the smol town (or the whole valley?) I grew up in basically doesn’t have them anymore. Bcs we hate flowers/biodiversity, but love grass & pesticides I guess.

        Wasp spider actually primarily live in tall grass. Big, unmown fields of grass are a great place to look for them. But I guess pesticides don’t help.

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          12 hours ago

          Yes, you are correct, I was inaccurate in my deception of events - they systematically cut grass & nothing looks wild anymore (but also less tall grass & there are less mixed meadows).