• flora_explora@beehaw.org
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    3 个月前

    No worries, “being smug over the meanings of words that aren’t ever actually used in a consistent way” is done over here in Europe as well. People have the exact same conversations you list as examples. I would even go so far and say that this is true for the whole world and throughout time, a human condition. I would also think that it really isn’t about the words/language, but rather about having control over the conversation and power over others.

    • callouscomic@lemmy.zip
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      3 个月前

      No! How dare! My unique lived experience is unique to only me and my arbitrary group! You can’t be the same!

      What next? You gonna tell me the “wait 5 minutes” joke about weather basically applies everywhere?

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        3 个月前

        The wait 5 minutes joke never seems to hold up in my region. Usually if it changes in the middle of the day, it’s not changing back. Usually it changes at night though.

    • krawutzikaputzi@slrpnk.net
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      I still get angry about teachers replying with " I don’t know if you can go to the toilet" Fucking power play for sure. I was already shy about asking to use the toilet.

      • flora_explora@beehaw.org
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        Yep, I really hate those moments, too. My father used to do this all the time just to get one up on me :/

    • pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      If I had a nickel for every lemmy post and comment being hostile over another countries language/use of language, I’d be a rich fucker indeed