• flamingo_pinyata@sopuli.xyz
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    7 months ago

    I have no idea how people agree to have sex. And I get panic attacks in relevant situations.
    I’m quite sure I was in a situation of mutual attraction with at least several people so far, but then what? … someone has to say something or suggest having sex. And that’s not me.

    • sykaster@feddit.nl
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      7 months ago

      It doesn’t start with sex, it starts with a kiss or a touch. You can also just make it literal and tell the person you’re attracted to them. That’s what usually worked for me, communication is key.

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      7 months ago

      Prostitutes exist precisely for people that don’t want to do or have trouble with these things you know.

      You give them money, you get ussy. It’s a simple system and they’re happy to explain how it works to get a repeat customer.

    • blarghly@lemmy.world
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      7 months ago

      Yep, that’ll do it. If you want to have sex with someone, someone has to make a move. That someone would probably need to be you.