Understand that women aren’t lying when they say they’ve had awful experiences with men, and that even though I’m a nice guy, they have absolutely no reason to believe that I’m any different if they’ve never met me before. How a woman that I don’t know feels about me doesn’t matter at all to me, because the women that I do know have no problems with me.
Admit which things are bad or not, understand why they are bad or not, and chose to not do the things that are bad
See the distinction between others and you
If you do things and you learn that they are bad and hurt others, work on it to understand what’s going on and make a better decision, don’t feel insulted and get mad at people telling you that something you did is hurting others
Don’t take things personally as an attack on yourself, don’t bind your identity to a larger group
I wish I can go a day without hating myself for being a man.
Pretty easy wish to grant yourself tbh.
If i can just not feel bad I would never feel bad.
I’ve gone my entire life without hating myself for being a man. It’s super easy
Good for you
Pray tell your secrets. Deafness? Overblown ego?
Understand that women aren’t lying when they say they’ve had awful experiences with men, and that even though I’m a nice guy, they have absolutely no reason to believe that I’m any different if they’ve never met me before. How a woman that I don’t know feels about me doesn’t matter at all to me, because the women that I do know have no problems with me.
Sorry I don’t buy that, for the same reason that I don’t buy the same kind of argument about people of color.
Recognize what others do that you don’t do
Admit which things are bad or not, understand why they are bad or not, and chose to not do the things that are bad
See the distinction between others and you
If you do things and you learn that they are bad and hurt others, work on it to understand what’s going on and make a better decision, don’t feel insulted and get mad at people telling you that something you did is hurting others
Don’t take things personally as an attack on yourself, don’t bind your identity to a larger group
I would like to add that it is really not that hard to do, all things considered.
Yeah I’m getting pretty exhausted with hearing MEN ARE SHIT just constantly all the time from everywhere. My bad for being born ig
Yeah. And it’s not like it’s hard to acknowledge that men face issues to and that women can also be toxic and abusive.