It sucks, but cis women also tend to get boxed into being more feminine. Though, without the denial of womanhood. Either way, I tend to view stuff like that as being treated more like a woman - for better or worse.

I love when my own community decides my gender expression for me like we all share the same viewpoints and struggles. But a few people are going to reply ‘this is so me frfr’ and ‘I feel personally attacked’ so I get to feel even more alienated

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