For me it was adults/authority figures screaming at children in full voice.

    • BeanisBrain [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.netOP
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      1 month ago

      meow-hug

      This actually ties into something I properly appreciate only in retrospect - before I was born, my father drank regularly, but after I was born, he was fully committed to never having alcohol in the house.

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      Oh yeah lol having my dad ask me to carry the OTHER case of beer to the truck after going to work landscaping with him.

      Love my dad though for all his faults he’s actually 💯 a comrade.

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      yeah, the drink driving and an open can on the freeway

      it only dawned on me that this might be no bueno on the new year’s eve where mum and dad had a fight in a public park waiting for midnight fireworks, dad dragged me off and forced me to get in the car, and he proceeded to do like 100km/h up suburban streets and sideswiped like 5 cars. when we got home, my brother screamed at him brandishing like the only steak knife we had.