• Cowbee [he/they]@lemmy.ml
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      2 days ago

      Fighting trolls should not be done by invalidating neopronouns, speak to anyone that uses neopronouns and they’ll likely tell you that it quickly cascades into witch hunting.

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          2 days ago

          Again, invalidating neopronouns is a cascading issue that results in witch-hunting and should be avoided.

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            2 days ago

            Not sure I agree as it seems like black and white thinking.

            I.e. I could imagine a scenario where someone is very obviously/admits to using neopronouns disingenuously and that would break my social contract with them to honour it.

            If I make an assessment of neopronoun usage on a case by case basis I can still avoid witch hunts. It’s similar to how I determine in real life if someone is an asshole or not.

            Another way; I can support a person who I genuinely believe uses neopronouns while denouncing and excluding someone who doesn’t.

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              2 days ago

              It is a very tricky slope. It’s best to never compromise on neopronoun usage even with suspected trolls, they can be discredited without erasing the pronouns.