No idea what to say about this, or what it even is. But I’m sorry to hear it. I had a very similar situation as a kid, multiple divorces, used as a pawn in their fight over money. It’s rough, but I learned from their mistakes and have a strong marriage that works.
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I have fleas. https://www.snand.org/
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Nah, been great, getting married was the smartest thing I’ve ever done.
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Technology@lemmy.world•Majority of CEOs report zero payoff from AI splurgeEnglish
12·5 days agoExactly, the vision was flawless, it will all be blamed on the execution. The people who failed to build it will be held accountable though; departments of them…
Fucking awesome system we have here.
You think that’s bad, I got married in 2008.
Then again, I’ve done a lot in that time, 3 kids into it, including 2 teenagers…
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Technology@lemmy.world•Hard drive prices have surged by an average of 46% since September — iconic 24TB Seagate BarraCuda now $500 as AI claims another victimEnglish
2·9 days agoThanks, I’ll look there. I usually just go Amazon or Newegg (easy returns if bad) but I’m sure there are better deals out there.
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Technology@lemmy.world•Hard drive prices have surged by an average of 46% since September — iconic 24TB Seagate BarraCuda now $500 as AI claims another victimEnglish
1·9 days agoI used to pay like $69 for them in the US. Looks like they add a hundred bucks or so to the price…
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Technology@lemmy.world•Hard drive prices have surged by an average of 46% since September — iconic 24TB Seagate BarraCuda now $500 as AI claims another victimEnglish
2·9 days agoI’ve got 30tb or so made up of 4 and 10tb used drives. All I’ll buy anymore. In fact, I need to change out of of my parity drives. Hopefully used market is still somewhat affordable.
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Comic Strips@lemmy.world•Translation: Traitor of the fatherland.English
3·17 days agoCouldn’t agree more with the sentiment, a fantastic outlook :). I am the complete opposite on the pasta front and try to find the longest pasta I can. So much more fun twirling one giant noodle at a time.
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RetroGaming@lemmy.world•How do you feel about the removal of tokens from arcades ?English
11·28 days agoThey arrived when arcade machines started charging more than one quarter per play. They are there to make it easier to spend money, I mean once you bought them, why not spend them all?
I’m old though.
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RetroGaming@lemmy.world•How do you feel about the removal of tokens from arcades ?English
16·28 days agoThey should have never gone to them. Arcades should be something you visit with a pocket full of quarters.
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A Boring Dystopia@lemmy.world•The Morbidly Rich Have Killed the American DreamEnglish
2·29 days agoThat’s not very nice to tetanus.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Do you prefer FOSS over proprietary software? How much do you use it?English
6·29 days ago100%. I try to use open source wherever possible. If it does have to be closed/proprietary, I will only use software I can own, no subscriptions; and the only if I can get them working in Linux (wine has come SO far).
That said, I do still have a windows partition but only for job related stuff.
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Linux@programming.dev•Bazzite has seen a massive jolt in growth over the holiday season, surpassing 50k active users. The Fedora Atomic image has gained 38.8k users total in 2025 since it began counting in April 🥳English
8·29 days agoSo far I’m fairly impressed with it. I’ll stick to Debian and LMDE for my purposes, but the family computer got a new life just in time for the RAM and SSD garbage.
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Programming@programming.dev•We Mass-Deployed 15-Year-Old Screen Sharing Technology and It's Actually BetterEnglish
6·1 month agoWhat a glorious future AI is heralding.
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Programming@programming.dev•We Mass-Deployed 15-Year-Old Screen Sharing Technology and It's Actually BetterEnglish
2·1 month agounless, I suspect, like me, you have a thick foundation of rock-solid cynicism that the AI simply will never penetrate
Do we know each other or something :).
Honestly great comment, couldn’t agree more.
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Programming@programming.dev•We Mass-Deployed 15-Year-Old Screen Sharing Technology and It's Actually BetterEnglish
51·1 month agoQuit reading at:
…AI platform where autonomous coding agents…
But your comment made me go back and look out of disbelief. How does a person get this far down a rabbit hole?
I wish I had more upvotes. Perfect.
Same. I adore my wife, fall more in love with her every day we’re together. It’s not always easy, but things that are worth it aren’t. Marriage is the best decision I ever made.
I did get married a little later than some, just had turned 30 the month before we tied the knot. Maybe taking my time and finding the right one helped, not sure. Just knew it was her almost right away.
She might be further down the list, but she’s still on it. You cannot accumulate billions and be a good person full stop.



The rich are the problem, something needs to be done about them. I’m hungry.
Edit- ugh, embarrassing misspelling left up too long.