Stumbled upon this post after you linked it from the c/insanePeopleFacebook community. I must have missed this post months ago and had no idea all these things were going on with you. Thanks for sharing your story and getting an opportunity to vent it out! I hope you make more gradual progress and get some peace in your life for you and your fam. Best of luck dude.
Wow, 7 TB in a month?
Slaps roof of internet router
You can fit a lot of Linux ISOs in that data cap!