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  • Curiosity made me check if !femalefashionadvice@lemmy.world existed and it does but it is not very active—I’d imagine any not-man looking for fashion communities on the Fediverse might not bite on male fashion advice lol. Now I am also wondering if just plain “fashion advice” exists, or anything for nonbinary people. Back when I was on Reddit I wasn’t aware of such a subreddit, I was only aware of malefashionadvice and femalefashionadvice.

    I’ll be honest, I am not even qualified to advise on fashion. I am sure I am not colorblind but things like “oh, that color washes you out” or “that color flatters you” have never been something I am able to see. I feel I’m missing a lot of knowledge like this, but I get by because none of my clothes cause me trouble in daily life—no pain, unexpected restricted movement, or general discomfort; people compliment my outfits sometimes; and I’m happy with what I’m wearing.

    Also, good luck with the community and I hope you find posters, as someone who is also one of the primary posters in some communities I’m in and hopes others would interact sometime.





  • The reason I want it to grow is because I want to talk to other people about my interests without having to use Reddit. Not just me being the only poster about it.

    I did say that I wondered if I’d accept bots if I was guaranteed the above outcome, with other humans, not with it being overrun with bots. I also don’t want to talk to LLMs. The reality is we do not know for sure if botting the place up will help it grow, and botting it makes it unpleasant for users now, so I am against it.


  • Fake engagement to drive more users here seeking engagement, thinking they are interacting with real people. Not a fan of the deception, but I read somewhere on the Fediverse (do not remember the source, or if this is true!) that Reddit started this way, and eventually got a huge amount of real people. I do not want to talking to an LLM on here, but I wonder if I’d be against LLMs pretending to be people in the comments if I knew the tradeoff would be the Fediverse growing, as itself and not some thing taken over by a corporation, with more actual humans to talk to about my interests with. The thing is, I don’t know if that outcome would occur for sure.

    Although your comment made me think: bots dropping hot takes do not get upset when people get toxic in the comments :P



  • I could swear there was a community link fixer bot, which is pretty useful for people reading comments, trying to click a link to a community, and getting an error. Bot has the correct link as a reply.

    Community-specific bots can be quite helpful. NameThatSong on Reddit had a bot that would run your post through song recognizer bots if your post had audio, to try to help the poster identify the song. I found it useful. I should probably figure out how to make a similar bot for !NameThatSong@lemmy.wtf someday.




  • !Musicals@kbin.social (https://kbin.social/m/musicals) was active. Then kbin.social started having issues and it has been inactive for 5 months. Prior to that it was mostly just me and the mod posting.

    The issue with musical theatre is that I spend a lot more time actually rehearsing for or working on theatre than I do talking about more discussable topics with strangers not working on the same production as me. Broadway news? Uhhhhh… (that’s what the mod was posting). I’d be happy to reestablish it somewhere functional, but I have to figure out what I would post first. Maybe finding the mod’s news sources and posting links, and asking how the commenters’ productions are going? Audition tips? Posting their own performances is probably way less popular because these take place in a physical space and who worked on what gets documented in a program, also known as easy doxxing… The nature of it being a documented performance art makes it harder to post what you’re working on, though I imagine a costume designer could post a costume and just not talk about where their production is or something… it is the performers (actors, pit members, etc.) that would have a harder time posting their work. Unless they post themselves practicing or rehearsing or something, but then it opens you to nasty “you suck” drive-by YouTube comment-style judgments… hence why I don’t post my own performances.

    Trying to think of stuff to post on !pkms@lemmy.blahaj.zone, !digitalgarden@lemmy.world, and !obsidianmd@lemmy.world. Will probably have to actively seek new stuff out.

    The struggle of wanting a Fediverse community and being unable to make it because you don’t know nearly enough about the subject, and gaining enough expertise takes time. Or you just don’t know what would get posted. In addition to being into musical theatre I play instruments. Oh god what do I post. r/piano is so full of people performing that I just do not care about. I think the trouble with a lot of performing arts communities online is we’re a bit busy you know… actually performing. Talking to your bandmate about this hard piece for the concert, about how you think the conductor is doing, etc. is cool and also often specific to your performance and not too good for discussion with strangers in my opinion unless it is a famous conductor or well-known piece. Same issue as the musical theatre stuff.