The latter part of your points is what really scares me as well. It’s only a matter of time until “protecting the children” becomes “defining what adult content is” and policing gender, sexuality, and politically inconvenient ideas under the guise of morality.

Call me a cynic, but I absolutely do not believe that companies “know that the days where they can just shrug off child predators using their products is coming to and end”. I don’t believe they give a fuck at all. In fact, if somehow a case made it to court and the court laid the blame at the foot of, say, Facebook, or whatever company, for a child being harmed, they still wouldn’t care because the money they make simply existing as is so wildly outstrips any fine they could possibly be levied that it doesn’t make economic sense to do anything differently.

There is real damage being done now and no one seems to care enough to stop it. Why go through all this negative PR about privacy violations if you can just keep doing the same thing?

Now, I can’t claim to know what the “real reason” these laws are being passed is, but if I had to hazard a guess, it would be because it gives more accurate data on users to sell and it is cheaper to advertise to your users when they directly tell you their age. Now, you can freely show pornographic ads, gambling ads, whatever, to your adults without ever having to worry about buying user data to know who will receive it. If a kid sees porn, well, you shouldn’t have let them on an adult account.

Exactly! On the a.roomy.place there’s a good, non-technical breakdown on what makes the concept good and what flaws it has, but the core of it is the concept of owning your own identity. The idea of “login with Google/Facebook” significantly reduces internet freedom, this gives you a way to “login as yourself”, beyond the ownership of a company. That’s the big boon here. With the IETF lending some credence to it now, it’s a good sign that self-hosted identity for your public presence will be adopted into the mainstream and a less locked-down internet is on the horizon.

/over-enthusiastic optimism

The thing that I love about it is that you can host your own account. So if Bluesky decides that they are huge fans of fascism, you can take your account and move to a competitor, Redsky, and not lose your posts, messages, follows, etc (assuming those people also move to the new platform)

So, your account can be the same between any number of platforms, you just have to let the platform add it to their list so their crawlers can show your activity.

And, like Lemmy, you can host your own “node” (I forget what they call it. A box that can whitelist, crawl, and display accounts that people want to be visible there, similar to an instance) but you can also just host your “account” and you can bring it to whatever platform you want and people can be confident they’ve found the same person.

Projects like https://a.roomy.space/ are also super interesting. It’s sort of like how Lemmy uses and reformats the content you might see on Mastodon into a traditional forum, except Roomy can use the AT Protocol to format it into a sort of Discord concept. It’s public, but they also are working on private, self-hosted ‘rooms’ as well. There are also other projects that reportedly have managed E2E encryption for private messaging. (Edit: on this topic, ATP is very pointed at public content. Any encrypted messaging solution isn’t likely using ATP for the messaging, just for your web identity. The major thing here is having a consistent presence and login that you and your friends can follow to various platforms without issue and can’t be controlled by another entity).

I’m super not a technical nerd, so I’d have to go reread documents to give you any specifics about it as a whole. And even then, I can only really understand them to the extent that I’m not actually a developer on the protocol, so I don’t have a first-hand understanding of how it works, but the concept of it and what it seems to enable is just really exciting to me.

Man, what a nightmare hellscape. And whether you use the service or can’t even afford a graphics card that can do any of this, you’re gonna pay for it as it incentivises developers to focus less on graphics because they’re just gonna be smeared in generative slop anyway.

Its getting harder to avoid dodging these fuckass companies, but I’m not supporting this shit anymore.

Oh that’s so amazing! I’ve been smitten with AT Protocol since I learned about it from their paper. I have such high hopes it gets more widespread.

Wolf tails hang, they don’t curl up. The first shot looks more like a malamute or one of the Nordic wolfdog breeds, the second looks like it has a husky tail.

In the first shot, there’s a low ridge that’s like an ‘opening’ to the bed. The second shot doesn’t have it either.

Yeah, the first thing I noticed was the completely different tail on the outside shot. Pretty lame.

Thanks I hate it

No way, I hugely appreciate your perspective, even if it was hard to hear. I genuinely feel for you and wish there was some way I could contribute or help, but in lieu of hug-boxing you and telling you everything is gonna be alright, please just let me say thank you for speaking about your experiences, as difficult as they were. It’s important that we talk about the good and bad things in the community so exactly what happened doesn’t happen to others.

I’m just an internet stranger, but if you ever want to vent into the void or need someone to talk to, please feel free to message me. ♥️

My main issue often boils down to the amount of people still on Windows. The huge market there pulls developer attention that way so much that often my choice in software is narrowed down to “the one that has a Linux build”. And sometimes that isn’t even the case and now I need to find a way to simulate Windows for this piece of Software to work in some capacity.

Now, that’s not all that often that this is true, but when it is, it’s annoying.

When I hear something in the middle of the night and have to go check it out.

Going with the post’s idea for a moment, by making it law, the companies prevent any new social media from popping up and not requiring ID verification and stealing away all their users. “They can’t say no, it’s out of their hands because it’s law”.

Not to mention, if everyone has to do it in one country because of the law, it makes it easier to push it in other places because now it’s a collective movement.

I actually agree with you here. My first thought was the anarchist communities here. Sometimes I agree with the sentiment of a post there, sometimes I don’t. I think we largely agree on a rough framework of the world, though, which is, like you said, different from the complete inability to agree on the fundamentals.

Oh shoot, I’m an idiot. Tuxedo is what I was looking at. 😅 Thank you for the link!

Yeah, unfortunately I’m stuck with laptops for now. I’ve had to move at a minimum once a year for the last six years or so, so I basically don’t keep anything I can’t put into a pair of hiking bags to lug around with me.

Without getting into specifics, I am ideally taking a temporary job that will give me a fair amount of disposable income, but I’m committed for a year with an option to do a second year.

It’s kind of a rare opportunity for me and I’m not even certain I’ll get it, but if I do, then the price of an upgrade doesn’t really matter to me much, within reason. It’s essentially going to be my only valuable item for the foreseeable future, for work, play, hobbies, all of it, so I don’t mind putting extra money into this to make sure it works well and lives a good, long time. I mean, I’m not gonna throw 4 grand at a laptop, but some of these other pricey ones at like System76 and Framework aren’t off the table for me at this point.

Wow, really? I was just looking at these and they are super interesting. You’re not wrong about that up front cost, though, yikes. What is it that makes them so seemingly modular? Is it proprietary stuff? Or is it just the focus of how it’s constructed? I’d be super leery about getting locked into ‘their ecosystem’ if they suddenly went under or something.

Oof, thanks for the heads up. I honestly think I have a pretty good list of components to double check at this point and it’s driving me away from anything bleeding edge. Whatever I end up getting, it’ll be something that’s new-ish right now, but I’ll be buying it a year from now.

I did check out System76 and even if the price is a bit high, it would be kind of nice to support a company in the EU. That alone has a bit of appeal. I haven’t seen Framework before, though. I’ll look them up, thanks for the tip!

Yeah, tell me about it on the price. I’m tempted to just bite the bullet on low framerates to see if prices come down, but this upgrade is already close to a year out anyway, so who knows. Maybe it goes up? Maybe society collapses, haha.

I’ve never ended up upgrading RAM in a laptop, though. Is soldered versus not soldered really that huge of a deal? I mean, outside of what you mentioned here regarding the price.