

Yeah people take the name literally and it doesn’t turn out well. I find using it to replace noddies in a heavy noodles casserole actually works, cause it’s baked and soaks in the flavor for a long time and you can make them extra saucy to make up for it too. There’s good recipes for it, but as a literal substitute for spaghetti noodles in sauce plopped on top spaghetti? That’s not a good recipe
Just make friends of all genders, including those you’re attracted to and let it go from there. Romance is meant to be born from friendship. Skipping friendship and going straight for romance is difficult for everyone and a generally bad way to know if you’re compatible long term. Make friends, and allow romance to be spontaneous