Look. As a gender fluid it dawned on me that one can be trans and still gender fluid.

At some point recently, when feeling very fem. I wondered if it would be better for me to transition and be gwnderfluid from the fem side instead of from the masc side.

I think what you describe has to do with hanging too tight to the gender binary. Once you realize gender isn’t binary, you realize it’s natural and normal feeling how you are feeling at any particular point. This is, you don’t need to chose a static gender.

Plus, présentation doesn’t need to match societal expectations for the gender you feel. You can chose a presentation for the “occasion” or as a matter of style.

You can wear a skirt when feeling masc or a tuxedo when feeling fem. I am now so used to mixing and matching that I wear what I think looks good regardless of which side of the store it came.

To keep the weeds out and not having to collect the clippings. It actually takes less time overall. It wasn’t a large area, though.

Less work? 🤣

I had a garden with wild flowers, it was planted by the previous owner. An horticulturist.

It was beautiful but required a lot of work. Way more than mowing a couple of days a week.

I still tried to keep up, though.

But we have so many “quotes” from Einstein. It would be fun to go one by one asking if he really said that.