

Wednesdays off is a game changer. Highly recommend. Kids are at school, spouse is at work, the time is for you.
Mon or Fri days off almost always turn into travel, where you lose 50-100% of your ‘vacation’ to transportation.
The mid-week break lets you have two mini-work-weeks without feeling like you’re abandoning your team and you are able to stay aware of the work situation.
A month of Wednesdays is like a solid week off, except you don’t have to cram a week into that last Friday and then figure out what happened on the Monday after.






5:30-6am, wake up and become competent.
6-8am - get the kids moving, make multiple breakfasts because they all want something different (including SO), get family prepared to travel, etc.
8am - start work.
3-4pm - collect some kids from school, sit in line feeling like you’re the worst because you’re not #1 in line for pickup, but you don’t think being there an hour early is reasonable.
5pm - end “work day”, begin “evening” and figure out what’s for dinner (we planned this weekly, so it’s not too hard) then make it.
7pm - bedtime ritual starts. deal with ensuing tantrums because “I don’t want to brush my teeth” or “I’m in the middle of this activity” or “why do I have to read?!”.
8:30-9pm - kids are in bed. finally.
9:30-5:30 - MY FUCKING TIME. 8 hours where the rest of the family is asleep and I get to manage myself… poorly. I need 5h, so bedtime before 12:30 is acceptable. Ignoring rounding errors, 10pm-12pm is for me. ignore it at your peril.