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Cake day: 2025年3月10日

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  • I’m very lucky in this regard. I have a second daughter, she’s proper grown up and lives her own life - but she still calls me just to tell me about her day … it’s amazing. I never would have dreamed to do that with my parents, our relationships are so different… I mean, my younger one is a teen, so she rolls her eyes at me at least three times a day, but that’s her job, right. 😄 All in all, we get along great. I mostly try to stay out of her hair, but still be curious about her - it’s a balancing act for sure.





  • Children love to help. It comes to them as naturally as play. “Chores” are just things that need to be done … I think it’s helpful to not think about something you have to do everyday as a burden, just for my own mental well being, haha. When my daughter was young and around me all the time, I would have found it weird to exclude her from everyday things that just need to be done. I didn’t even phrase it as “help” - we would just do those things together, just like we played together. She’s a teen now, and knows how a household works and she just does stuff that need doing, just like any other member of our household. I mean, of course her room is a mess, but that’s just age appropriate.