I’ll start. I’m a 37-year-old woman, and I’ve always been indifferent about having children. I love peace and quiet, but at the same time, I wouldn’t mind having kids if my partner really wanted them.
I’ve been with my husband for 13 years now and married for 11. I’m his second (and final) wife. He has three kids with his first wife. She was supportive of him taking a second wife, with just one request: no more children. That solidified my decision not to have kids.
I think op doesn’t mean ‘first wive’ as in ex-wife.
You mean, the first one is still there in the place of a main wife, and OP is just the appendix?
I haven’t had such an idea, admittedly.
Maybe not ‘main’ and ‘appendix’? Both could be, like, actual wives idk.