So im bisexual (technically pan but whatever) . Im in my 30s. Not a bottom
I have only been in one real relationship with a woman before but im considering to give grinder a try some time this year. (or any other app really)
I live in a city (europe) so I assume theres enough gay men around. Despite being attracted to “some” men I have spend little time thinking about it. I dont really spend time in queer spaces and im pretty much straight passing.
Is there anything I should know about dating other men or male presenting people ? Any tips or input are welcome since im a complete novice on the field
I’m a boring cishet so take my words with a grain of salt, since they mostly come from conversations with some friends of mine:
Be aware that apps such as Grindr often host people who are very active in the app and very horny. This isn’t something intrinsically wrong, but some people are just a bit unhinged and have no boundaries, and will be very overtly sexual from the start. If that’s something you wanna engage in that’s totally fine, just be ready for a likely wave of sexual attention if you open an account.
get on prep and ask for up to date testing
You have my exact experience with sexuality and relationships. Like precisely the same to the point where it is strange. Accordingly, I have no advice lmao.
Well I wish you the best of luck wherever life takes you.
I guess I just realized in the last 2-3 years I would be totally fine dating “cute” guys and not just gals.
Gay men bottoms usually don’t like being gunned in the street
The only guns I carry are my arms
