So im bisexual (technically pan but whatever) . Im in my 30s. Not a bottom

I have only been in one real relationship with a woman before but im considering to give grinder a try some time this year. (or any other app really)

I live in a city (europe) so I assume theres enough gay men around. Despite being attracted to “some” men I have spend little time thinking about it. I dont really spend time in queer spaces and im pretty much straight passing.

Is there anything I should know about dating other men or male presenting people ? Any tips or input are welcome since im a complete novice on the field doggirl-happy

  • vovchik_ilich [he/him]@hexbear.net
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    4 days ago

    I’m a boring cishet so take my words with a grain of salt, since they mostly come from conversations with some friends of mine:

    Be aware that apps such as Grindr often host people who are very active in the app and very horny. This isn’t something intrinsically wrong, but some people are just a bit unhinged and have no boundaries, and will be very overtly sexual from the start. If that’s something you wanna engage in that’s totally fine, just be ready for a likely wave of sexual attention if you open an account.