Saw this one on Reddit (don’t judge haha) and thought I would see what the collective of Lemmy thought!!

  • silly goose meekah@lemmy.world
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    14 days ago

    Every person I’ve ever dated asked me out, but I just assumed that was normal for anyone who wasn’t absolutely hideous.

    features of mine (strong jaw, ability to grow a thick lumberjack beard, being taller than most of our friend group, etc.)

    Assuming you’re a man, it is absolutely not normal to be asked out by women. It is starting to happen more and more, but living in berlin, being surrounded by very left wing people, I still only rarely hear about a woman initiating a romantic relationship.

    • nylo@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      14 days ago

      that seems like a fair assumption to make considering he mentioned his wife bragging that she had snagged an attractive man :3

    • shalafi@lemmy.world
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      14 days ago

      Before online dating I only dated women who were clearly hitting on me or asked me out. 80s movies scared me about being “that guy”.