This is a rare good one, here is the post:
Background:
r/FuckingFascists is a subreddit focussed on the kink of fucking fascists, Nazis, ICE, MAGA and far right. Since the recent rise in tensions with ICE, users have become increasingly uncomfortable with their kink. One moderator is suddenly confronted with the realisation their kink might be problematic in the current political climate and petitions to shutdown the subreddit. The users react expectadly.
The main post:
At what point are we complicit?
"Hello everyone. This is Brandy, back again for some reflection. This post isn’t coming from me in my capacity as a moderator, but as a user, and doesn’t reflect any official stance of the mod team, but merely my own.
I’ve been stewing lately. In the aftermath of the shooting of Renee Good, and now of Alex Pretti, I’ve been acutely aware of beyond troubling trends here in this subreddit. First, when we put the community on pause after receiving a wave of input from users that we ought to update our policies, the amount of hostility that I, and the moderators received for merely trying to respect the wishes of you, our users, was appalling.
From our official posts, to our mod-mail and DM’s, I’d never seen so much open vitriol and toxicity here. Especially given that the hate was aimed at our intention to listen to feedback and attempt to improve safety standards. It makes one think: are the majority of the users here actually genuine fascists and assholes? It seems like it. Any post made under Non-Fascist flairs and any comment in support seems to be flooded with downvotes and flagrant cruelty in its comments. Any post made expressing Serious topics in OOC communication or aftercare is liable to receive waves of bigotry, hate, toxicity, and frankly just stupid comments from actual fascists that are seemingly upset.
I and other mods have always done our best to make clear that this kink should be based entirely in fantasy, as this slice of power dynamic kink can and does have dangerous real-world consequences. Genuine fascists, authoritarians and right wingers are not welcome here. That said, it’s seemingly clear, to me at least, that a majority of our users likely are bigots, assholes, authoritarians and bootlickers who are just clever enough to avoid being overt and getting banned.
That leads me to the question at the top: at what point does this group and its users become complicit in the normalization of heinous ideas for nazis, and not an escape and safe space for people with an edgy kink?
I fear we may have passed that inflection point. Personally, I’m weighing going to the rest of the mods and petitioning that we nuke this sub. I realize I’ll likely get a ton of hate and push back from a tide of braindead nazis hiding their stripes, but fuck them. I volunteer my time, experience, temperament and judgement to try and keep this place as safe as possible for people to explore a sensitive kink with as little fear as possible, not to empower and embolden pigs and monsters.
If the community has tipped past the point of catering to liberals exclusively to primarily right wingers, nazis, and nazi apologist right wingers, then it’s gotta fucking go. If any of this post has upset or scared you, the reader- you’re probably part of the problem. For the rest of you who are actual liberals just trying to express your fantasies safely, I apologize. I don’t mean to deprive anyone of a safe space, but to give you the behind the scenes perspective- this place isn’t safe.
It hasn’t been safe for some time, and it’s not like the line is even close. It’s as safe as it *can be* within the confines of its current setup and Reddit’s policies, but I doubt it’s safe enough to feel comfortable for many users, and it likely won’t be unless truly drastic measures are taken. It’s still better than every other fascist themed kink sub out there, because those are all run by actual fascists who we banned from here. There’s no better alternative for this kink on Reddit, but even this place is inherently dangerous, despite our best efforts.
It’s a rock and a hard place. I don’t want to take the safest alternative away from liberals who want a safe space to explore this kink, but I also don’t want to cater to you sub-human nazis in this community either. That said, it seems that, unfortunately, consent and safety minded liberals are the minority here- not the majority. Perhaps it’s better off if I simply discourage that minority of good people from using Reddit to engage with this kink at all. Maybe it’s simply too dangerous. Perhaps it should get wiped out by Reddit, and I should beg and plead with the admins from my position of authority to nuke not only this, but every other sub in this kink space, because I guarantee that they’re all much worse than this.
I don’t know. I’m tired of catering to you ingrate, inbred MAGA incel hicks, against my better wishes and judgement. I’d really prefer if you all just left. Then I could sleep better at night. I’m rambling, but I truly am wrestling with my course of action, and I’m utterly sick of having to treat you idiotic authoritarian dicks with even a modicum of respect that you don’t deserve."
Top comment exchange
OP reply:
It’s my issue if I give them a platform to spew their garbage.
User reply:
Unfortunately in the “free” world such ideas are allowed to fester platform given or not you’ll probably find that this sub contributes very little to the problem.
Subreddit founder chimes in
It’s no different from the sex negative kinkshaming bullshit the sub faced when it first opened.
feel free to delete it and let the kink be dominated by actual right-wing subs, i fucking guess
OP reply:
Let me say this clearly as someone who’s been doing the work here since the election: It is not safe. Wasn’t when I joined the team, and was less safe at its outset than it is now. There are still throngs of fascists. Maybe the idea and conceit just can’t be executed safely. I don’t know. We’re trying, and have been trying since your abdication, but it only ever appears to get worse in regard to analytics.
Great intention, that I support, but perhaps there’s a better way forward than just perpetuating the ongoing slide into propaganda.
Another exchange between subreddit founder and OP
OP in a different comment chain:
Another commenter:
By deleting this place you’d flood those worse alternatives with even more people. It would just be sending everyone to places that don’t care, at least while they’re here we can do what we can to keep the place safe.
OP:
Hopefully they’d see those spaces for what they are and just drop it. I don’t know.
Founder:
and just… drop the kink?
imagine if someone said this about humiliation kink in general. imagine how fucking absurd it would sound
OP:
Humiliation kinks don’t often glorify people being shot in the street for defending themselves and their communities, or empower people to view people of different races as lesser. To equivocate the two is a bit reductive.
Founder:
You could argue that humiliation kinks glorify emotional abuse and bullying, but i guess people hanging themselves isn’t dramatic enough to catch your attention?
people were openly fucking murdered in Trump’s first term of office. not just one or two either. suddenly struggling with it says a lot more about how much fucking attention you were paying.
A user trying to pacify:
If you hate the sub so much just leave. No reason to kill everyone else’s fun cause you’re over it.
OP:
everyone else’s fun is genuine engagement with nazism- it would be my moral duty to stop it. I don’t hate the sub, I hate the fascist bootlickers who think this is a place for them to have fun.
User:
And they are the vocal minority. I’m not a fucking Nazi, I hate Trump, I would never in a million years vote Republican.
But I’m still down to trash the people that come here for the trashing.
Plus, if you leave there’s the obvious outcome of all the Nazis moving to another sub just like this and you have no power to attempt to help. So you’re fucked regardless I guess.
Another moderator agrees:
Another exchange:
OP:
The problem is that in our community, it seems they can outweigh the non-psychos. The non-psychos is who this space is for, if it’s true they’re vastly outnumbered, I don’t want to give psychos another venue to indulge in their most evil ideas and thoughts.
OP follows up their first post with a post telling fascists to leave the subreddit. Users seem to be confused
If you voted for Trump, or are a conservative or authoritarian: LEAVE THIS PLACE NOW
The title sums up my thoughts. Get the fuck out of this subreddit. You do not belong. We do not like you. You are not welcome. This subreddit does not want your kind here. Simple. Go. Shoo. Scram. Slink back to whatever hole you spawned from. Leave us alone
One user is very confused:
Isnt this subreddit for people who voted trump or for people who have a kink for conservative men?
Op response:
user:
So it is for liberals to have fantasies with right leaning men.
OP:
Yes, but only fantasies for liberals. Right leaning men are not allowed and explicitly told to go fuck themselves before receiving a ban.
another commenter:
Yeah… lol that’s not happening irl, lots of people on here are taking this literally and are invisioning their fascist sympathizing self as the top. I found this group through researching where I could find MAGA sympathizers (hopefully to make into my bitches) and was told this was where the most to find some really extreme woman hating fascists. So who ever is running this and posting is not making that clear enough and most of these posts are providing lots of wank material for losers who want to fantasize about sexual abusing those they oppress and oppose. FYI to whoever is running this sub and making this material.
From the same initial comment chain
Mod response:
Different commenter:
Yeah, I’m not sure if mods know this, but A LOT of people on this sub are far right and are genuinely wanking it to ideas of abusing and raping the people they oppress. And all the left people just doing it for kink are providing them with material and egging them on. It’s pretty disturbing to me.
OP:
We know and are sickened by it. We do what we can to ban those creeps as fast and often as we can.
Some reflection from other commenters:
When we had the discussion about closing the sub I wanted to keep it open. But this post may be convincing me that privat-ing it will be the better way.
Just know this: There are maga all over this sub pretending it’s just a kink.
Maybe if we have more posts where conservatives are topped they will start to dislike this sub?
Thanks for this, Beep. The kink is only a variety of B&D, but the moral dilemma makes for some laughs, and I needed that.
Bro, this is a very rare instance of a comment making me happy.
It’s like no one thanked me in a long time. I don’t know, maybe I am overthinking your comment.
But I will never meet you and I have one life. So I wanted to just tell you about how your comment improved my day.
Worst case scenario I get embarrassed later, best case scenario I improved your day as you improved mine.
Anyway, I hope you are happy.
💛💚💙💜❤️
Leave it to humanity to once again prove I haven’t seen everything.
A great example of how people on the Internet will twist their brains into any weird shape they feel empowered to do by others. I don’t give a shit about “kinks”, I give a shit about Nazis feeling at home on the Internet. Because it’s a fucking problem. Fuck that sub and fuck the founder. What a bizarre asshole.
What.
The.
Fuck.
You forget the fascists.
It should be:
What.
The.
Fascists.
Fuck.
I just know that sub is full of he and shebeasts, just gross all-around
I’m just glad I don’t have kinks that can cause harm to people. That must be tough.
I’ll readily admit that I both don’t understand a lot of kinks and I didn’t read all of this post. However, I think I read enough to understand what is happening.
That being said, the fact that sub exists makes no sense to me. How can you hold both the idea that “Nazis are pieces of shit” and the idea “I want to fuck a Nazi” in your head at the same time? Lots of kinks I’ve heard about and just thought that’s not for me, but this sounds more like a delusion than a kink. Am I missing something?
Roleplay. You know a teacher having sex with a student is wrong. Not as wrong as with a nazi, but it’s the same concept.
How can you hold both the idea that “Nazis are pieces of shit” and the idea “I want to fuck a Nazi” in your head at the same time?
Evolutionary adaptation. Throughout history, if you’re a woman living under fascism the most likely way for your genes to live on is by fucking a fascist
Long-term non-fascist societies prospered more, making is a rare kink, but it still exists
At the end of the day, kinks aren’t particularly rational. I know a guy who is strictly child-free, but has a breeding fetish
And to clarify this specific community doesn’t want to fuck a Nazi, they get off on the idea of it. It’s roleplay, as many kinks are
Power play. Humiliation. Forced submission. A psychological flaw where one becomes aroused by the thought of dominating someone who believes themselves in a position of power.
Fascists generally think of themselves as superior, so having one bent over a barrel and turned into a sex slave is more about destroying that sense of superiority.
At least that’s how I reason it at the moment.
Probably something about it being taboo
How can you hold both the idea that “Nazis are pieces of shit” and the idea “I want to fuck a Nazi” in your head at the same time?
I agree - I think at the point of cognitive dissonance, one needs to contend with the fact that they might be brain-adled from using porn too much.
There’s a lot of that going around - for instance, mainstream porn is generally violent in ways that normal people would find unacceptable, but they still are really into seeing it on screen. While you absolutely can seperate fantasy from reality in your own sexuality, it more so applies to written erotica than visual porn, and so I don’t think it applies when repeatedly visiting a sub like “FuckingFascists.”
So that being said, I have a huge problem with porn being hosted on a reddit-type service. It means that people search by visiting subreddits specifically themed over that one thing, and they get quite obsessed with it at an accelerated rate to normal. It is also bad to host porn right next to normal content, especially when they come up in the same search system, and especially since there is no second tier to the NSFW-tag.
Have you ever talked to anime fans? It’s probably similar.
The ultimate “i can fix them” ? Just guessing.
If either one fixed the other the kink would break. If the sub somehow became not inferior (often impossible as facists judge for things like gender, biological sex, skin color) then there is a massive loss of power. If the sub convinced the facsist to be not fascist, well now theres no shitty morals top and it becomes regular power play.
I know we don’t kink shame here, but can we kink shame this shit? Can this be the kink we accept we can shame?
I think it ceases to be a kink when the founder essentially says they value their right to the sub over any potential harm it causes. If anything, the “kink” is feeling like they’re above consequences.
You have my blessing.
It’s like people looked at scat and thought “This isn’t brown enough. We can do worse that this.”
It’s like people looked at scat and thought “This isn’t brown enough. We can do worse that this.”
Whenever someone mentions the scat stuff, I always like to link this comment from 11 years ago; scat comment Reddit.
Excuse me but what the goddamn motherfuck is that subreddit?
what the goddamn motherfuck is that subreddit?
No, that’s blasphemy and incest.
You have to draw the line somewhere, right?
When I first read the subreddit name, I didn’t thought it was meant literally…
But can we pause for a moment and commend the moderator that he has at least a tiny bit of integrity? He recognised that his kink is problematic, especially now, and took action. Honestly, good for him!
My dad was addicted to crack, my mom was addicted to meth, I suffered a lot of physical abuse as a child, I was raised by my grandparents, and I’m still so much less fucked up in the head than those self hating nutjobs
Well that was… an interesting read. I really think the best course is for potentially dangerous and misinterpreted communities like this to be removed and barred from any majorly public platform like reddit. Make these sorts of things more underground and low key and you stop random morons from stumbling into it and it becoming normalized. I think it’s weird personally, but adults should be allowed to do this shit, it’s just how widespread and accessible it is that’s problematic. TLDR reddit and other social medias do not need a community for everything and these sorts of inherently abusive ideas are dangerous when promoted on public platforms.
There are plenty of SUB/DOM kinks, I am sure they can find one to replace their current, or start a new forum.
This is fascinating. I think the issue is how the internet as a whole is eroding safe spaces to play out kinks and this is a hotflash microcosm of that problem. The so-called “front page of the internet” made it too easy for abusers to find new victims. A natural byproduct, to be sure, but reddit (and all big platforms, really) are abusively negligent in addressing it.
