I don’t like her romantically and want nothing sexual with her either. She acts desperate to talk to me, won’t get into more details.

I could act busy each time she approaches me, and avoid her as much as I can but I don’t know if I should tell my manager about this. I don’t even know what I’d tell a manager: “I’m informing that I want nothing to do with X and I’m going to keep my conversations with her to a minimum”?

Another idea: be boring as f*ck.

Do I tell her friends I don’t like her?

Ideally I could tell her directly I’m not interested / I don’t befriend coworkers (not true but it would work to soften the blow), but I simply don’t know how defensive she’s gonna get, laugh it off or accuse me of playing games.

  • reabsorbthelight@lemmy.world
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    13 hours ago

    Just talk about other women you are interested in.

    Something in writing like “hey, I planning a date on Friday, and I was wondering if you can you cover XYZ?”

    If she retaliates, you have a message showing lack of interest