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doubtingtammy@lemmy.ml to askchapo@hexbear.netEnglish · 4 months ago

Is having sex bourgeois?

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Is having sex bourgeois?

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  • lil_tank [any, he/him]@hexbear.net
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    The bourgeois want to get a monopoly on sex. They’re trying to deprive the people of sex because it develops strong bounds between them. Ancient people knew that warriors were better at war when they fought for the ones they had sex with so soldiers had lots of gay sex. The bourgeois are trying to make the revolution weak by imposing its own bourgeois values on sex : male dominance, procreation-orientedness, non-consensuality, heteronormativity, violence. In one word, as exploiters, they promote exploitative sex. When the proletariat destroys exploitative sex and develops new forms of bounds stronger and healthier between its individuals, class consciousness and collective action power will follow.

    • Abracadaniel [he/him]@hexbear.net
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      Ahh cool cool polyamory is revolutionary got it. (I actually do believe this a little bit)

      • Damarcusart [he/him, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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        If a person can navigate the social minefield of a messy polycule they can also probably do the same thing in a revolutionary org.

        • SerialExperimentsGay [she/her, she/her]@hexbear.netdeleted by creator
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          I’d argue that a true revolutionary’s polycule is not messy, but a working example of collectivism. However, it absolutely prepares you for surviving the purges when you’re able to defeat a rival polycule in a game of political intrigue.

          • chgxvjh [comrade/them, he/him]@hexbear.net
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            Isn’t it sort of like an intentional community?

  • JoeByeThen [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.net
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    Who need their bourgeoisie ate?

    • Mindfury [he/him]@hexbear.net
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      omg me

      • JoeByeThen [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.net
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        CW: blood, cannibalism DAMAG3 - BiLLY iN B3LLY duck-dance

        • HexReplyBot [none/use name]@hexbear.netB
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          I found a YouTube link in your comment. Here are links to the same video on alternative frontends that protect your privacy:

          • yewtu.be
          • inv.nadeko.net
          • yt.artemislena.eu
          • piped.video
  • Le_Wokisme [they/them, undecided]@hexbear.net
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    anyone who has more sex than me is bourgeois anyone who has less is an ultra

  • FlakesBongler [they/them]@hexbear.net
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    Yes

    It’s theft of my precious vital juices

  • XiaCobolt [she/her]@hexbear.net
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    I think sincerely that sex as a mirror to our society probably reflects a class and gendered characteristic making some sex have reactionary vibes and some progressive to varying degrees.

    • chgxvjh [comrade/them, he/him]@hexbear.net
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      [Aella Kink political compass]

      • XiaCobolt [she/her]@hexbear.net
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        I hate that I know that reference. I also hate that the data is good and if she has abandoned the faulty model of the political compass it would be much better.

        • SerialExperimentsGay [she/her, she/her]@hexbear.netdeleted by creator
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          Looking that up makes me so glad i’m lesbian.

  • Trying2KnowMyself [they/them, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    It’s not as fun as I was led to believe.

    I’m not sure if that makes it bourgeois or proletarian.

  • Owl [he/him]@hexbear.net
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    only if you’re having bouring sex

  • Acute_Engles [he/him, any]@hexbear.net
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    That’s the reason my wife gave me for stopping

  • Chana [none/use name]@hexbear.net
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    No. Only women are bourgeois. Extrapolate accordingly.

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    If sex is bourgeois, I don’t want to be proletarian

  • infuziSporg [e/em/eir]@hexbear.net
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    On the Chapo sub, one of the most long-running protracted debates was “is cumming bourgeois”.

  • Abracadaniel [he/him]@hexbear.net
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    Yeah when the sex is good enough it feels like you rule the world and that’s bourgeoisie.

  • AvocadoVapelung [comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    only bougies have enough time for sex

  • insurgentrat [she/her, it/its]@hexbear.net
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    Depends on how much emotional labour you’re having someone else do

  • SkingradGuard [he/him, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    Yes

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