StillNoLeftLeft [none/use name, she/her]

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Cake day: November 12th, 2024

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  • Yeah I don’t have the spoons for that which is why I’ve had a hard time with sandwich toppings in my quest to reduce meat consumption. I do a lot of avocado when it is in season and grown closer, but the “cold cut” open sandwich is the staple thing around here so am happy that at least some options are vegan.

    Was just thinking how incredible it would be if no capitalism, we would have such variety of vegan food and meat would probably not be eaten much at all. Because it makes no sense. But here we are, in the endlessly subsidised meat production era. It’s the reason the hams and stuff are all cheaper than this and you get like 100 different types when there are literally only 3 different vegan options that I have seen.







  • So I have a trans stepkid that I of course knew when she was a kid and not yet transitioned.

    I call her by her name. There is only one.

    And if we talk about memories when she was not yet officially her, I use her name. Because the name she had she never was.

    Sometimes my mind slips and I accidentally refer to her by her deadname in my head (as that is how I knew her then), but it doesn’t justify it.

    Edit. I also don’t get the question really. People who get married and change their lastnames aren’t referred to by their previous name, no matter how little contact there is with them. Provided that you know the new name, you use it. How is this any different?