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justmercury@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•How did you settle on a name?English
8·3 months agoI just… tried a bunch. Alexandra was my first, used it for about 6 months online. Didn’t like it. Too harsh. Then I tried Sarah, felt better, new test group… but wasn’t right. Unsure why, just wasn’t me. Tried Amanda, and that was it.
The downside of this is you have to make disposable friend groups. I made mine on old internet kink websites, a few focused on like… pre-written “teases”. It kept things fairly transactional and anonymous so there wasn’t any relationships to break, just another content creator disappearing
justmercury@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Have you ever been rejected just because of your height?
4·6 months agoyes! it’s wild getting it from guys who are already taller than me. I’m lucky enough to have not had the experience of looking for a partner on dating apps(unless discord counts?), but i hear all the time about how absurdly superficial they are
justmercury@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Have you ever been rejected just because of your height?
9·6 months agoI’m 5’8, plenty of men aren’t interested in women as tall as they are.
Hey, if hips are something you want, you need to start HRT as soon as possible. Once your bones are set they don’t really change, only fat distribution (which does help, as well as the workout tips mentioned by the other commentator.
It’s been my experience (at 30) that estrogen doesn’t change my body, only the directions it follows when I work to change it, so I very heavily concur with the workout advice!

Selfishly?